Winning the heart and desire of a guy can seem like a very challenging task to complete. The idea is to find a guy that is willing to commit to you, love you, and that wants to exclusively belong to you, but it seems in today’s world that is nearly impossible. All the time you hear about nasty breakups, high profile divorces, and big time infidelity which makes you wonder; is it possible to make a man totally devote himself to you? If you’re the right woman for him and he’s the right guy for you, just being yourself should inspire him to be committed only to you. Here are what you can do to inspire his total devotion to you.
1. Show Him You’re Compatible
When you’re trying to get a guy to devote himself to you he needs to see the benefits in being with you. Think of it as a marketing strategy. You will need to get him to see how being with you works will and makes for a great relationship. He needs to know what he gains if he’s committed but more importantly, what he loses if he’s not willing to devote himself to you. If he’s really into you, he won’t want to pass that up.
2. Show Him He Needs You
Unlike women who are more logical emotional thinkers, men tend to think in a pattern. They generally only devote themselves to something when they feel as if it is a need in their lives. Show him how you make him a better person through your actions, support, and methods for loving him. Once he realizes he needs you to be in a better place in his life, he will not easily let that go.
3. Show Him, He Can Be Himself
No man wants to be in a relationship with a woman who is trying to change him at every move he makes. You need to learn to love and accept your guy for who he is and then show him that you accept him flaws and all. If he feels like he doesn’t have to hide his identity or lose part of himself to be with you, he is more likely to devote himself to you.
4. Have Lots of Fun
Ultimately a man is going to devote himself to a woman that makes him feel good. Men love spontaneous women who are up for a good time. Even if you’re introverted find ways to get out and have fun with your significant other. Sacrificing from time to time is really appreciated.
5. Prove to be Confident and Independent
Men are looking for assets and not liabilities. If you want a guy to devote himself to you you’re going to need to be independent. You can’t appear to be needy always needing his time and attention. This becomes a burden for a man who will then “check out” of the relationship altogether. Instead you need a life of your own and not be so insecure when he doesn’t want to be around all the time.
6. Don’t Forget to be a Woman
This might sound like a crazy bit of advice but you’d be surprised how many women forget to be the woman in the relationship. While you should have some sense of independence you must also still allow the man to be the man. Stroke his ego from time to time, be vulnerable, and sometimes just let him be the hero of the day.
Most importantly to get a man to stay devoted to you, you must be willing to show him you love him all the time. Find ways to express your love on the routine basis. When he feels loved he too will show love in return and will strive every day to make sure he does not lose a woman as valuable as you.